Before I finally recognise that we’ve settled full circle on having our reception at Geoff’s family’s property, I’d like to have a word (rant) to the caterers and venue hire places of the world.


  • If you bother listing yourself online anywhere you NEED to have a website and a website that works not just a phone number and a page that shows your contact details yet again.
  • Menus need to be actually present and comprehensive beyond just saying that you do desserts, duh, I want to know what.
  • Prices, prices, prices. I don’t care if you food costs a lot or a little but I won’t go chasing anything unless I see prices or there is something else really convincing.
  • Pictures are nice of your food, but I’d rather you left them off if the resolution is so bad you can’t see anything. And please… for the sake of keeping your company viable – put a tiny bit of effort into presentation!
  • Hidden costs are mean


  • You usually get the ‘where’ said, but how many guests can you fit seated/standing?
  • Menus please
  • Prices please
  • Time restrictions please
  • Photos that show something about the venue, I know what rose bush looks like
  • Real Wedding photos at the venue
  • Hidden costs are mean
  • Dates online where you are ‘booked out’ so I can see without doing all the chasing only to find it’s useless.

Life Words

Help me out grammar fiends.

What is the correct usage of:



Where is it which? I have been under the impression for a long time that It’s follows the usual path of keeping the apostrophe when there’s some belonging occurring, but now someone has informed me otherwise.

Examples in your explanations would be greatly appreciated.

I must know.


il_430xn5573195.jpg1 Thessalonians 5

Now, brothers, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. While people are saying, “Peace and safety,” destruction will come on them suddenly, as labor pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape.

But you, brothers, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all sons of the light and sons of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, get drunk at night. But since we belong to the day, let us be self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet. For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him. Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

Final Instructions

Now we ask you, brothers, to respect those who work hard among you, who are over you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.

Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Do not put out the Spirit’s fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil.

May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.

Brothers, pray for us. Greet all the brothers with a holy kiss. I charge you before the Lord to have this letter read to all the brothers.

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.

(emphasis mine)

image source: Jsandquist


Yes, yeah we’re movin’ on
Looking for direction
Mmm mm we’ve covered much ground
Thinking back to innocence
I can no longer connect
I don’ t have a heart left to throw around

Oh, and time moves on like a train
That disappears into the night sky
Yeah, I still get a sad feeling inside to see the red tail lights wave goodbye

We’ll grow old together
We’ll grow old together
And this love will never
This old love will never die

This a partial set of lyrics from ‘This Old Love‘ by Lior.

I loved a book when I was younger – The Rabbits Wedding. The story – like the song is beautiful – the little white rabbit makes the little black rabbit happy.

This evening I was reading up on the author – Garth Williams and I discovered that this book which sits in my top three favourite picture books of all time, is quite controversial.

Garth Williams wrote and illustrated a controversial story called The Rabbit’s Wedding. The book was banned over its perceived theme of interracial love. The story was about a black rabbit marrying a white rabbit. Some have noted the obvious logic of illustrating the rabbits with two different colors so the reader might tell them apart more readily. Others, in their quest to depoliticize the book, have have claimed a perception of the black and white motif as, perhaps, a reference to yin and yang (i.e. male and female, though, inconsistently, the color-to-gender associations in the book are reversed.)

Jonathon Green, in The Encyclopedia of Censorship (Facts on File, 1990) [[1]], wrote:

The Rabbit’s Wedding, by Garth Williams, was transferred from the open shelves to the reserved shelves at the Montgomery (Alabama) Public Library in 1959 because an illustration shows a black buck rabbit with a white doe rabbit. Such miscegenation, stated an editor in Orlando, was “brainwashing . . . as soon as you pick up the book and open its pages you realize these rabbits are integrated.” The Montgomery Home News added that the book was integrationist propaganda obviously aimed at children in their formative years.

I have expressed my sadness over themes in children’s books being chastised before.

rabbitswedding.jpgWhen or if I ever have children, I want them to read as widely as possible. The good, the ugly. There is a definite point at which you have to take into account the maturity of the reader, but what better than to be exposed to all angles – with some guided direction you’re going to achieve a much better standing on issues presented.

I know that there were things that I read far too early. These – like it or not, I know contributed to the rounding of my education – not just the ‘school stuff’, but I think relationally as well.

I cannot remember historical events, dates etc through even having learnt them by theoretical means but I remember quite clearly books I read on the middle ages, biblical times, Greece and Rome, Colonialism, Australian history, scientific and theological biographies…

I read and I read and I read.

There is something altogether compelling about narrative.

We should be less concerned about political correctness and more concerned about a thorough understanding of the world.

Surely some of the ‘mistakes’ we make as a contemporary society could be better learned from the safety of imagination than experience.

I know this is all clearly disputable and I am not in one hundred percent agreeance on this from every angle, but the point still stands.

Stories help us feel less alone, less alien in our misgivings, our hopes, our fears, our growing up.

It sometimes seems that’s where it stops. We grow up. We stop leaving so much to our imagination and go chasing reality.

Life Words

The following is from a memorial poem that I found via Molskinerie, I’m not entirely sure for what specific memorial but I really liked it.

Something resonated.

Day is done,
gone the sun,
From the hills,
from the lake,
From the skies.
All is well,
safely rest,
God is nigh.

Go to sleep,
peaceful sleep.
May the soldier
or sailor,
God keep.
On the land
or the deep,
Safe in sleep.

Love, good night,
Must thou go,
When the day,
And the night
Need thee so?
All is well.
Speedeth all
To their rest.

Memorial Day 2007