I didn’t quite expect the comments I recieved from the last paragraph of my previous post. I was further accosted on msn and ‘made’ to explain. I thought I’d been clear, but obviously not.
Firstly. The previous post was in no means a plee to be asked out. Hahahahaha I would truly not be happy at all with anyone who used something like that as a reason. Not that any of you would be so erm. shallow. or really in a position to do so anyway.
So, “Why does it suck?”
I don’t exactly see why I have to have a reason. It simply is. It does suck sometimes because I get sick of waiting for that stage of life. I’m not a patient person generally speaking. When it comes down to it, if you want to get all technical or semantic then the bit that sucks, is when you shift into that dissatisfaction.
As I did say before this kind of position is not a good basis for springboarding a relationship – you shouldn’t fill a ‘want’ with someone else. Relationships are certainly not about the you exclusive. The other person must be very much in focus as opposed to fulfilling your own ‘needs’ (or ‘wants’ as the case may be) yes some of that might/will come as you each surely have something to offer, but that cannot be the reason.
I never said being single sucks all the time. Life is generally pretty good. Just because it is something I haven’t experienced doesn’t make it, ‘wow unexplored territory’ it must be better (;P though probably often is).
It appears as if some people danced their late night eyes over the word SOMETIMES. Ach, the selectivity in readership and the falibility of the written word and tone online!